Monthly Archives: September 2010

Your Inner Guidance System

We create our life and our love life through our beliefs, intentions, and the actions we take in the world.

Every one of us has an inner guidance system that drives us and guides our choice-making whether we are aware of it or not. Our system includes:

  • A “vision” of what we want our life to be;
  • Values that are the structure of our life; and
  • A “life purpose” that is our reason for being.

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Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Most of us know how to speak. Many of us have never learned how to communicate.


1.       To communicate clearly and effectively you must understand there are two sides to every communication – the one who sends the communication and the one who receives it.

2.       Likewise, there are two methods of communication – verbal and non-verbal communication.  Don’t forget – just because you may not be speaking, doesn’t mean you are not saying something.  Often, not saying something can be more important than saying something.

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10 Tips For Safe Internet Dating

Being safe and staying safe is your number one job! You are meeting complete strangers and unfortunately, some people are not who they represent themselves to be.

You must be conscious, alert and pro-active at all times. Here are my Top 10 Tips For Staying Safe when you date on the Net.

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10 Tips For Successful Internet Dating

Internet Dating has become a popular, legitimate and preferred way to date. Men and women across the globe are talking about–and are interested in–Internet Dating.

Your success depends on you becoming conscious, forthcoming about your needs and requirements, and developing excellent listening skills.

Here are my Top 10 Tips For Success when you date on the Net.

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Dr Jackie Black Newsletter

Hello. I am Dr. Jackie Black, your Couples in Trouble Expert. Since 1999, I have guided many formerly frustrated and desperately unhappy Couples in Trouble to happiness, closeness and having more fun together than they ever imagined. My years of experience combined with your commitment to your personal growth will enable you to welcome the results you have always wanted and never believed were possible in your marriage.

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